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Additional Keys to Effective Rules Communicating rules Rules and their consequences must be communicated clearly and
simply to participants and parents prior to and during each season. Participants and their
parents need to know what their adult leaders expect, and what will happen if those
expectations aren't met. No matter what methods are used to communicate rules, it is important for participants and their parents to know the reasons for having rules that prohibit the use of tobacco, alcohol and other drugs. The rationale for a given rule helps young people
know that a rule isn't simply something made up by adults to
spoil their fun, but that rules are made with concern for their health and safety. Tobacco
products and alcoholic beverages are illegal for adolescents primarily because they pose
greater risks to the health and safety of young people than adults. There is also evidence
that the younger a person starts to use, the more likely he/she is to experience more
severe problems later with use. Other drugs, such as performance-altering drugs (anabolic
steroids as an example) may be prohibited in order to prevent participants from getting an
unfair advantage over others. If parents perceive that the rule is based on concern for
their children, if they believe that the consequences for violating the rule are fair, and
if they know that school activity staff members are serious about enforcing the rule, they
will be more likely to be supportive. Taking the time to explain the reasons you
think rules are important can be one way you can express your concern for your
participants. Your opinion that young people should not use tobacco, alcohol and other
drugs is probably more important to young participants and their parents than the rule
itself. Yet, rules provide an opportunity for you to show your concern and state your
opinion. There are many ways to communicate rules
before and during the season. Here are a few suggestions. Most schools routinely publish their
policies in student handbooks with the expectation that students and parents will read,
understand, and agree to the contents. Some school activity programs also publish
handbooks and include their codes of conduct. Rules may also be published in a school or
community newspaper. The problem with these methods of communicating rules and policies is
that often parents and students don't take the time to read and consider these rules on an
annual basis. Signed statements are one way of boosting the chance that this will happen.
These statements simply acknowledge that the parents and participants have read, and
understand and have received the policy. Written contracts may go further and ask
parents and participants to abide by the conditions set forth in the code of conduct.
Participants agree that they will not use tobacco, alcohol, and other drugs, and that they
will abide by the consequences if they choose to violate the code. Signing this contract
is required in order to participate. Parents agree to uphold the contract. This differs
from voluntary pledges, which generally are not a condition of team or group membership. Knowing that people often forget what they
have read once, some adult leaders print posters of the code of conduct and post them in a
visible place, such as the locker room, gymnasium, or auditorium. This can serve as a
constant reminder of the code for both participants and fans. When participants are
involved in setting the annual goals for their team or group, some adult leaders print
wallet cards which may also include a reminder of the codes of conduct. Pre-season meetings are perhaps the best
way to communicate rules and their rationale on an ongoing basis to participants and their
parents. Pre-season meetings can also be an opportunity to distribute and collect signed
contracts. Other team or group meetings, held throughout the year, can be used to discuss
these codes of conduct. Informal opportunities that come up
throughout the year can be used to communicate and reinforce your rules to your players.
When you hear rumors about an upcoming party, this can be a time to talk to participants
about your concern for them and your expectation that they not use. When a rule infraction
takes place, this can be a time to discuss the rule and to remind participants that their
commitment to the team or group includes choosing not to use tobacco, alcohol, and other
drugs. There is no magic rule or
code that will fit every situation for all time. Any rule or code should be reviewed
periodically. Groups affected by a given policy should have a voice in its creation.
School activity rules and codes need to be integrated with other organizational policies
and programs. In any case, rules and codes are only one strategy for sending clear and
consistent messages and are rarely given as the primary reason for choosing not to use
tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs. |